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'No Boxed Gifts' Option

Prefer monetary gifts? Here's how to request them gracefully.

What is 'No Boxed Gifts'?

A polite way to tell guests you prefer:

  • Cash contributions
  • Bank transfers
  • Monetary gifts
  • Rather than physical presents.

    Why Choose This?

    Many couples prefer money because:

  • Already have household items
  • Saving for a house
  • Planning honeymoon
  • Prefer to choose own items
  • Reduces waste
  • Cultural tradition
  • Enabling the Option

    1. Go to DashboardGift Registry

    2. Toggle No Boxed Gifts

    3. Customise your message

    4. Save

    Customising Your Message

    Write a thoughtful message explaining your preference:

    Example Messages

    Traditional:

    "Your presence at our wedding is the greatest gift. If you wish to give, we kindly prefer monetary contributions towards our new home."

    Honeymoon focused:

    "As we already have a home together, we would be grateful for contributions towards our honeymoon adventure."

    House deposit:

    "We're saving for our first home. Any contribution towards this dream would be deeply appreciated."

    General:

    "Please don't feel obligated to bring a gift. If you'd like to contribute, we prefer monetary gifts."

    Adding Payment Details

    Help guests know how to give:

    Bank Transfer

  • Account name
  • Sort code
  • Account number
  • Reference to use
  • PayPal/Venmo

  • Email or username
  • Link to payment
  • Wedding Card

  • Address for cards
  • Note about cash in cards
  • Combining Options

    You can have both:

    1. Enable "No Boxed Gifts" message

    2. Keep a small registry of items

    3. Guests can choose either option

    Display Options

    Choose how it appears:

  • Replace registry - Only show monetary option
  • Alongside registry - Show both options
  • Subtle mention - Small note at bottom
  • Cultural Sensitivity

    In many cultures, monetary gifts are traditional:

  • Common in South Asian weddings
  • Expected in some communities
  • Practical and appreciated
  • Frame it positively and guests will understand.

    Etiquette Tips

  • Be gracious - Don't sound demanding
  • Make it easy - Provide clear instructions
  • Say thank you - Acknowledge all gifts
  • No minimums - Accept any amount gratefully
  • Offer alternatives - Some prefer giving items
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